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STAYING MOTIVATED AT WORK WHILE YOU ARE LOOKING FOR ANOTHER JOB

By Carole Wiater
Personal and Career Coach
www.GoingPlacesInLife.com

Most people who look for a job already have a job. Yet, most of what is on bookshelves today is written for those who aren't working. There's one important question that's not talked about by most career transition experts and that is: "How do I stay motivated in this lousy position that I've already decided to leave, because I don't want to be fired before I get a chance to quit?"

Here are some helpful ideas. First of all, think of this situation you are in as a positive. You're out there looking, maybe you've even interviewed. It's just a matter of time. What have you got to loose? Be bold. Ask for a new project. Think of something that you wanted to accomplish when you first came to work there, or something that will make things better for the next person. Start putting some gears into motion. Perhaps you will be gone when your project comes together, but at least you can leave knowing you accomplished one more thing. Think of it as your legacy.

Being bold doesn't mean being stupid. Avoid tipping off your boss or coworkers that you are about to leave. You don't want your employer to know you are looking, because you don't want to make things more difficult than they are. You don't want your coworkers to know either, because no matter how close you have been in the past, once they know, their allegiance may change. Do your all your job search work at home, on break, or at lunch. Never use company resources-computer, email, copier, fax, phone, or anything else. Be smart. Keep your plans to yourself.

When yet another irritating situation comes up at work, and it will, focus on the problem, not the person. The typical job search takes three to six months, if you are looking full time. That time span could double if you are looking part time. Don't let a little problem get you sidetracked. You want to leave under good conditions, so you can get a glowing letter of reference when you leave. By focusing on the problem, you can leave personalities out of it and get the work done.

Even if the circumstances get chaotic, remember that ex-coworkers make great networking contacts for the next time you want to change jobs. So, while you are still working there, get coworker's home phone and home addresses. Make up an excuse-I want to send you a Christmas card. No matter how angry you are now, later you may need their help, so keep your relationships positive.

If a controversial situation comes up and you are feeling scrappy, because you know you're history, be the bigger person. It never hurts to lead by example. Be the one who makes the compromise, or goes the extra mile. Now, more than ever, you need to know that you didn't leave things a mess. You actually made something better.

Resist the temptation to sabotage anything. Yes, you know where all the soft spots are and know how to make them pay. However, no good can come from revenge. Besides, the best revenge is to go on to a more exciting career.

Finally, when the day comes to tell the boss the bad news, be gracious and thankful. Remember, you want and need that good reference. Many hiring companies now, not only verify employment, but also talk to the supervisor. Thank yours for enhancing your career, for the opportunity to learn and grow, whether it happened that way or not.

Carole Wiater is a Personal and Career Coach living in Kingwood, Texas.

Her website is www.GoingPlacesInLife.com

 

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